You have to dream before your dreams can come true – APJ Abdul Kalam

It’s April 14, 2018 today. It’s also Baisakhi. The day Khalsa was formed. When we were young, we would go to the temple at 5am and take a bath in the holy waters of the sarovar. In Canada, there are no temples with a sarovar. Even if they existed, it would probably be frozen at this time and taking bath in it would be like taking bath at the sarovar in Hemkunt Sahib. LOL! Cold and frozen. By April, usually the temperatures really warm up in India so it’s not that bad. The only issue with me is that ritual…

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Being in disconnect with people around you

I was caught up in something. I forgot to focus on my main focus in life: moving forward. I was caught in thoughts such as “life sucks, ” I can’t do this anymore”, etc etc. Recently, it’s been feeling like no one wants to understand me. What people want is more important to them rather than how I am feeling. And I realize this is how you end up in a life full of shit, where people just walk alongside you with no idea of what’s going on in your head. They don’t care what emotional trouble you are going…

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There are no 2 kinds of people

I often hear people say that there are two kinds of people: the ones who think positively and the ones who think negatively. Positive people are known to think of failures as opportunities and negative people are known to beat themselves down about their failures. But the thing is that even though at times, I, myself, tend to say the same thing, I am not convinced that this is true. What this categorization reveals is not Real Reality of people but what I call the Surface Reality. The Surface Reality focuses on how people act and behave and conclusions about…

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